Wedding planning can be both exciting and overwhelming, especially when it comes to choosing anything for the wedding, particularly the perfect bridal train. Whenever I plan an event, I tell brides-to-be to have their closest friends and family stand by them. I'm Praise Shaguy, an event planner, and I will share my tips and insights on picking the perfect bridal train that reflects your style and creates a perfect wedding party.

Create a vision:

Start by picturing your dream wedding. Decide what theme, colour palette, and atmosphere you want. By doing this, you'll be able to figure out what kind of bridal train you're going to need. Keep your taste in mind and make sure it fits your overall wedding theme, whether that's traditional, modern, bohemian, or eclectic.

Take a look at your relationship dynamics:

The bridal train consists of your closest friends and family members, so it's important to consider the dynamics of your relationship. Think about the individuals who have been there for you through thick and thin, those who have played significant roles in your life. Select people who genuinely support your journey as a couple and who will add positive energy to your special day. This is so important because you want them to be able to relate to the smiles and tears on that day, they know all the stories others don't know about the relationship.

Size Matters:

Determining the size of your bridal train can be delicate. Keep in mind that a small bridal train allows you to have a more intimate celebration, while a larger one brings a lively and exciting atmosphere. Consider your venue, budget, and logistical aspects when deciding the ideal number of bridesmaids and groomsmen to include in your bridal train. This is because you do not want to have a large number of bridal trains with minimal guests. Everything must blend in.

Personalization is Key:

Make your bridal train selection process unique by picking them according to your different needs for your wedding. Consider the individual personalities, talents, and strengths of each potential member. Choose people who actively contribute to the planning process, offer creative ideas, and help you bring your wedding vision to life. This personalization adds depth and authenticity to your bridal train. Don't forget that you will need people to make you laugh, people to run errands for you and people to give you prep talks in between so you are not under pressure.

Dress Cohesion:

When it comes to attire, finding a balance between individual style and a consistent aesthetic is essential. Select dresses or suits that flatter different body types and complement your overall wedding theme. Opt for a colour or pattern while allowing each member to express their style through accessories or minor variations in their attire. Make sure you are happy with their dresses so you do not look back at the bridal party and cringe at their outfit.

Communication is Key:

Once you have finalized your bridal train, open up a clear line of communication with your chosen members, preferably a group chat. Share your expectations, schedule dress fittings, and inform them about important dates and responsibilities. Clear and consistent communication ensures everyone is on the same page and allows for a smoother planning process.

Choosing the perfect bridal train is an exciting part of wedding planning. By following these personalized tips, you can create a bridal train that reflects your vision, celebrates meaningful relationships, and enhances the overall atmosphere of your special day. Remember, it's not just about having a beautiful bridal train; it's about surrounding yourself with loved ones who support and celebrate your journey into marriage.