I began to understand my boundaries fairly early on in life. One example among many was when I began learning how to drive. Having access to a car meant some type of freedom.  One day I got asked to take someone somewhere and I agreed. This was while I was still in high school. I then brought it up with one of my older sisters and she asked if they gave me gas money, I said no. And thats when she reminded me not to let people take advantage of me no matter what. She was an early advocate for making space for me to use my voice. I write this as a reminder that the 2024 is right around the corner. What changes do you want to make for yourself? What a re you giving yourself permission to do this year that you probably never would?

Do not let anyone treat you differently than how you want to be treated. 

Happy holidays and Merry Christmas.