In 2020, the world was confronted with a harsh reality: every 11 minutes, a woman or girl became a victim of gender-based violence, often at the hands of someone within their own family. This alarming statistic resonated deeply, particularly amidst the turmoil of the COVID-19 pandemic. In Kenya, where femicide was a grim reality, young activists like myself mobilized, joining hands in a femicide March, determined to amplify our voices and catalyze change.
During the March, we encountered a diverse spectrum of male participants: some sincerely embraced the cause, while others seemed more preoccupied with documenting the moment for social media, and regrettably, a few sought to exploit the vulnerable. Yet, amid this array of responses, one truth remained steadfast: femicide transcends gender—it's fundamentally about recognizing and valuing the sanctity of human life.
Femicide is not merely a matter of gender dynamics or assigning blame to victims; it's about dismantling entrenched cultural norms that devalue women and perpetuate violence within our communities. This requires comprehensive action—from enacting effective government policies and legal reforms to fostering a societal shift in attitudes towards women.
However, effecting real change necessitates a grassroots approach, beginning with us—the youth. We must reimagine education, infusing it with teachings on empathy, respect, and gender equality. It's about challenging toxic masculinity and empowering boys to create safe and inclusive spaces for women, starting from early childhood through initiatives that promote empathy and responsible behavior.
Beyond education, addressing femicide demands a holistic approach that encompasses community engagement, mental health support, and economic empowerment for women. We must prioritize the voices and experiences of survivors, amplifying their stories to raise awareness and combat the normalization of violence.
Ending femicide requires reshaping our culture, education, and legal frameworks. It necessitates a collective effort to confront ingrained biases and behaviors, advocating for tangible reforms that prioritize the safety and dignity of women. Together, we can build a future where every woman and girl lives free from the threat of violence—a future where the ideals of equality and justice are not just aspirations, but realities.
As passionate activists continue to lead the charge, our generation stands poised to make a lasting impact. Let us raise our voices, stand in solidarity, and work tirelessly towards a world where femicide is not just a statistic, but a relic of the past.
