Questioning our conception of what it means to love and how cheating falls into that mix.
Since the time of romance, there has been a marriage between love and fidelity. Being faithful leaves the realm of choice and becomes an inherent quality of love.
To love is to see one, and only one.
If anyone were to cheat, they had denounced their love for their partner. Any bond that once existed now shatters upon the act of lust outside the agreement of love.
Stats
According to gitnux.com
46% of people believe that infidelity should end in divorce.
What does it mean to cheat?
Firstly, one must be in a relationship that depicts a clear line that corners just the partners in the relationship. Then, the person must engage intimately beyond the line with another, not in the original love agreement.
The line of love has existed so long that we hardly even question it—a mistake made with many other concepts.
In playing the game of absolutes, we lose, at a fundamental level, the nature of humanity.
Humans have been made to fit a simple, narrow hole into which not all can fit, and for the ones who do fit, they're handed flowers for their heroic ways.
Virtue and sin strike all.
"In a society where most are without arms, condemnation will fall on those without legs." One man's sin is another's virtue, and the second man's virtue is the first's sin.
Humanity hasn't come to understand itself in full, but it grows in truth.
The nature of the marriage of sex with love is one that is inherent to a number, but not all.
This is not to say that the world goes rampant, pulling their pants immediately their senses tingle; rather, we re-evaluate the nature of our truths in love and intimacy.
In understanding the truth, we move away from the harshness of pain and hurt and replace it with peace and understanding.
To discard the truth, we only allow ourselves to wallow in the waste of our hope.
Man is a complex being that defines itself as simple, but in that simplicity, it loses himself.
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