This is an aftermath of Valentine 's Day for Two ladies. Enjoy.
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Currently I am in Paris, nursing a broken heart.
I was told a Yoruba man would break my heart but I didn’t expect Chikodi to be the one to tear my heart to pieces.
I met Chikodi, my now ex-boyfriend a year ago. Today is supposed to be our anniversary but it can’t happen since he married another lady on valentine’s day and left me to nurse my broken heart.
I love Chikodi so much. He is a mix of traditional Igbo man and a modern man at the same time but more traditional. Even being a traditional man, he doesn’t do all those ‘overlord’ things on me. I don’t need to explain further.
I don’t like to cook like that but he doesn’t mind. Only a few times, he would want me to cook for him but he doesn’t bother me. He gives me peace, he loves and pamper me with all his money. I add in little ways I can but he does most of the things. He always say ‘I am a man and a correct man takes care of his woman’. Chai! Omo! Love sweet oo. With the right person is now sweeter.
We’ve been going on like that. He takes me out of series of dates, set up romantic lunches, dinner, breakfast, brunch, vacations when I am on holiday from school and all that.
Omo. My chest.
About a month or two ago, he started giving me many money. I don’t even have to ask before he sends huge amounts to my bank and he consistently insisted I start up my business I told him at the beginning of our relationship. I didn’t know why he was rushing things but didn’t take it wrong. I just saw it like he’s looking out for me and wants to provide me all the baby girl treatment he tells me I deserve.
Long story short, he sent me flight ticket to Paris [the place I told him I wanted us to go for valentine], with lots of goodies. He told me I should just go and he’ll meet me there.
I was happy, saving most of the money and shopping with some for the both of us. I missed him between the days but we talked. [he sent me there about a week to valentine].
Valentine came and I got a video call from him and it looked like he was at a wedding. I asked whose wedding that was and he broke it to me in the most unconventional way ever. He said it was his wedding to a girl he met like two months ago.
I screamed and asked if he was kidding. He said, he wasn’t and told me he had to marry the girl since she’s carrying his child and his parents knows about her and told him to do the right thing by marrying her. He said that was why he decided to set up my business and give me all the money he thinks I need, so I don’t leave our relationship with nothing.
I cried because I love him so much but he consoled me and prayed that I get the best man ever that wouldn’t do this thing he did to me but will cherish me and love me and pamper me more than he did. He said he would have love to keep me as his side baby but I deserved more than that and I specifically told him I hated that kind of thing.
He said I was number one priority and he wouldn’t treat me otherwise. He apologized many times and told me he sent me a huge amount to my bank to cater for me and my school till I finish and he asked me to take care before he disconnected the call.
I am extremely heartbroken and a little happy. Happy that he told me by himself and not let me find out in another way. It would still hurt but I am sure more than that.
Anyways, I am at the hotel room he’s still paying for till I decide to leave, crying my heart out but with a glass of wine by myside as I write my story to you guys. I might be heartbroken but it’ with elegance and style.
May GOD bless me with a man that will do me right and not get another lady pregnant while with me. Amen.
Thanks for reading, lemme enter the jacuzzi and continue the crying.