In June of 2023 I received the most devastating news. It was that my aunt who I had a closer relationship with than my mother had passed. I was devastated. In the months to come I watched the people around me grieve but I also watched others do it in questionable ways.

I was angry a lot of times, I cried a ton and then finally I called a counselor and went to speak with her. I was falling apart and i watched this woman put me back together.

In those months I delt with grief. I dealt with long standing insecurities I had. I let go of relationships that weren't serving me. I thought I was done growing up.

Then this year I moved out of home and now its a different level of growing up I'm doing.

Let me take you along as i figure my 20s out