THE QUOTE "ALL MEN CHEAT"

While I was growing up, I had in mind to finish up my Secondary school before jumping into any relationship or having anything to do with my opposite sex as I don't want to be distracted in my studies. It now took me roughly two (2) years extra before making up my mind to go into relationship though I had some crush; guys crushing on me and me crushing on one or two (2) guys at my class then.

Getting into tertiary institution, I eventually entered into a relationship when I relocated to another state, but been naive about relationship made me to jump out at a slightest mistake from the guy side (infidelity) or provocation and I am like is this what I would face in this relationship. I hate infidelity so much that I can break a man's head just because of that. When I am with you, I go in with my full heart, and if I don't like you, no need of going into that relationship.

I had another relationship that didn't last and it keeps happening that way, "my heart keep breaking" and the response I do get then is that “baby I know this people before meeting you” and my response would be then why not focus on them than putting me in a mess? WHY? but does it mean I keep meeting the wrong one or is that how relationship should be with infidelity from each partner. Because it made me to say I won't be sincere again with any other man. But the reverse is the case.... "AMAKA won't you get married? That's the question I keep getting from my same sex....but the fear of getting married to a man that lack trust or with infidelity is the case here.

I always had this infidelity problem of guys cheating on me and I keep giving a lot of chances, with that, it causes a lot of distraction to me both physical and mental. But think of it, it's what I can handle, yes I think it's what I can handle.

Going into relationship requires matured mind both for friendship and marriage. As for me when I go into relationship is when I don't have any much work doing or focusing on, I think of going into relationship. But think of it now that I am a full grown woman of marriageable age, just confused of how to go about it because I always wanted a sincere partner "It is either you are with me full body and spirit or you are out".

My question is what really causes this infidelity in relationship or marriage? Can't a man maintain one woman? Must he cheat? But never the less, I am getting married to the best man, the man of my dream; intelligent, handsome and trustworthy.

My focus:

* Please go into relationship when you are ready

* Neglect any form of relationship pressure from peer group

* Always bear in mind that sex is a spiritual thing that has much blessings, and must be done with the right person if it must be done, to avoid Sexual Transmitted Diseases (STd).

* Long term relationship does not guarantee marriage, as you can meet your man under two (2) weeks and marriage would set in.