The Absurd Tag of "African Time"
When you hear “African Time,” you know it is a term often associated with lateness. To put it mildly, it is a form of relaxed approach towards punctuality.
Personally, I have a tendency to arrive extremely early to any event or occasion. Ironically, even though I find it amusing, I had an award as the most punctual student in my department. This is owing to the fact that I can arrive for a 10am class by 6am (okay, don't open your eyes that wide at me, I know it is extremely early). Not because I wanted recognition, but because there was a lot I gained with being punctual. I had first hand information, I used that time to go over materials and secure my preferred seat in the classroom (the best view by the way). I held that particular seat throughout my four years in a tertiary institution.
Normalizing Communication during Delays
There's no crime in acknowledging that yes, emergencies can happen to anyone, something might come up, an obstruction, or just about anything that seeks to withhold us from arriving at the said time, however, as we all know, communication is key.
Making someone wait for you or lying with the usual excuse “I am close” when you know fully well you are still picking out outfits, doesn't make much sense (P.S, I used to get angry at a roommate back in school because she always ordered a cab before she took her bath! I can be petty, I know). Those waiting for you might have other commitments, and my extreme punctuality often makes me hesitant to go out with others because I’m frequently the one left waiting.
The Deep-Rooted Nature of Lateness
Admittedly, when we were kids, there was a stigma associated with being punctual, “If you arrive on time, they will give you work to do; you will clean chairs, arrange tables, do this and do that” Lol, okay, I agree, sometimes, that is true! But it is hardly ever like that now as an adult! Arrive half an hour early for an event, and you’ll witness how “African Time” robs you of the initial wonder of the occasion. We learn to unlearn! (Some stuff actually, don't unlearn the good ones).
Rejecting Irresponsibility
I think it is high time we confronted the issue of lateness as a sign of irresponsibility. Blaming it on "African Time" only fuels the problem and does nothing to make the younger generation do better. It is important that we acknowledge that responsibility knows no cultural bounds and should be upheld by all.
The Simple Solution: Keeping to Time
Punctuality is a universal virtue, not limited by geography or culture. African time or no African time, you owe punctuality to people waiting for you, you owe punctuality to yourself.
If you arrive early, you won't die! Instead, it gives you respect, conveys professionalism, and establishes you as a reliable person which is an awesome reputation by the way.
The notion of "African Time" should be reevaluated to promote a culture of punctuality and responsibility to not just the younger generation but for all of us. It's important to recognize that time is a valuable resource, and respecting it benefits individuals, communities, and cultures. It is best we move away from stereotypes and embrace a more responsible approach to time management. By doing so, we can collectively reject the tag of "African Time" and work towards a more punctual and respectful society.
Rob Brydges, who apparently arrived on time for a Nigerian wedding, got a taste of the “African Time.” Unfortunately, it has eaten deep inside the system. We definitely can do better.