A man waiting for so many years before sleeping with you doesn't mean his intention is pure, of course men are very smart, they can wait for so many years for the coochie. On the other hand, a man sleeping with you on the first date doesn't mean he won't take you seriously. As a matter of fact, sex is nothing to men, it doesn't determine their love and commitment for you, if a man wants you, he wants youNevertheless no go do sex before marriage with any man, keep your body till weeding night.