In a society that worships wealth, men are left grappling with the consequences of defining their worth in Naira and Kobo. As the late Chinua Achebe once said, 'Until the lions have their own historians, the history of the hunt will always glorify the hunter.' It's time for Nigerian men to rewrite the narrative of their worth.

'Until the lions have their own historians, the history of the hunt will always glorify the hunter.'

Money is to men what beauty is to women. Money is the currency with which men trade to get respect and prestige all over the world.

Many women won’t marry or have anything to do with a broke guy, even if they are broke themself. This shows that society has conditioned men and women into thinking that a man without money is useless and not worth being with.

We expect men to have money because they are the so-called providers of the family. Even those who don’t have families are still expected to have a buttload of money to take care of everyone around them and in preparation for the family that they are going to have.

For example, a man may be unconventionally beautiful i.e ‘ugly’ and the woman might not be attracted to him but she will say at least ‘he get money’.

And herein lies the crux of the issue: the intertwining of a man's value with his financial status has become so ingrained in the societal psyche that it dictates not only romantic relationships but also the very fabric of how men perceive themselves and are perceived by others. This ingrained association between a man's worth and his financial prowess transcends individual choices, subtly shaping societal expectations and influencing life's critical decisions.

The notion that money is the ultimate measure of a man's worth extends beyond personal relationships and infiltrates professional spheres. The workplace becomes a battleground where men feel compelled to showcase their financial success, and promotions and recognition are often synonymous with a substantial bank balance.

In essence, the societal pressure to conform to the archetype of a financially successful man becomes a relentless hunt for prestige, leaving many men ensnared in a cycle of perpetual pursuit. The consequences of this pursuit go beyond the tangible and measurable, seeping into the very essence of mental and emotional well-being.

As people chase after money to prove their worth, it not only affects their relationships and work but also pushes them towards risky choices, like gambling and unethical actions.

Unethical actions like yahoo yahoo. I’m sure women are doing yahoo yahoo too. But men are notorious for it. I’ve always wondered why though. Why are men more likely to fall into that rabbit hole?

I think it’s because there is so much pressure on them to be rich and take care of their babes. Because ‘real’ men are rich.

Now all of this get money at all costs, gambling and, fraudulent lifestyle will have a toll. Many men are suffering in silence, suffocating from the pressure, and drowning in a sea of expectations.

They are afraid to speak up because they don’t want to be seen as failures who can’t make money and are lashing out. I’m not a man but I’m guessing.

"Yahoo yahoo" involves various fraudulent activities, reflecting the extreme measures some men take to fit society's mold, which ties a man's value to his financial success.

This culture encompasses online scams, identity theft, and other fraudulent practices. While anyone can engage in such activities, the prevalence of men in this realm raises questions about the unique pressures they face.

In a society where success is strongly linked to financial wealth, "yahoo yahoo" becomes a way for some men to achieve rapid gains. The allure of quick money in a society that highly values wealth can tempt even those who would typically avoid such paths.

The prevalence of "yahoo yahoo" culture is a complex issue tied to societal expectations, economic disparities, and the pursuit of recognition. It mirrors not only an individual's quest for financial success but also the systemic problems that drive individuals toward ethically questionable actions.

As we examine this phenomenon, it's crucial to approach it with empathy. Many involved in "yahoo yahoo" are not necessarily criminals but individuals grappling with the immense pressure of societal expectations. Addressing the root causes of these behaviors is essential.

Exploring the "yahoo yahoo" culture prompts us to question not only the individuals involved but also the society that fosters an environment where the pursuit of wealth, regardless of ethics, is prioritized. It urges us to reconsider how we define success and encourages a culture that values achievements beyond just monetary wealth.

The prevalence of "Yahoo Yahoo" culture is a signal for a broader societal shift. It challenges us to redefine success, not only for those caught in these practices but for society as a whole. It calls for rewriting the narrative to create a more inclusive, compassionate, and understanding framework for assessing the worth of Nigerian men.

So, when people go after wealth, sometimes using shady methods like "yahoo yahoo," it messes with more than just their own lives. Entire communities get hit. Jobs disappear, trust gets broken, and the local economy takes a hit. It's like dropping a stone in a pond—the ripples mess with everyone nearby.

This "yahoo yahoo" thing isn't just about making quick money; it's also playing a part in keeping some messed-up ideas alive. When people think all Nigerian men are out here scamming and not doing honest work, it slows down progress. It's like trying to run with a weight tied to your leg. We need to break free from these ideas, and let people know there's more to us than what these scams make it seem.

Remember, it's not just individuals caught up in this mess; it's the whole community paying the price, and these ideas are holding us back. Time to change how we see success and break free from these toxic cycles.

So please let’s not do that thing where we measure a man based on how much he has in his pocket.

This International Men’s Day let’s take a turn for the better.